Larry T. Upton
I
was born in Morgantown, Kentucky on December 13, 1940,
to Lattney Earl Upton and Elizabeth (Betty) Allen Minton.
My parents were descendents of people who
had been in Kentucky since the early 1800s.
The Uptons came into Kentucky in 1801 to claim farm land along
the Green
River in Warren County. The Mintons
came in the mid-1800s as construction workers working on the locks and
dams
that were being built along the Barren and Green rivers.
Shortly
after my birth my parents moved to Richardsville, the village where my
father’s
family had resided since 1801. Later,
as WWII picked up, we moved to Bowling Green to be near my father’s job
working
with a defense contractor. That is
where I grew up and attended elementary school. I had an idyllic
childhood except for one thing: I had asthma,
and I had it real bad!
My
mother’s family were Mormons, probably the only Mormons in Bowling
Green in the
early 1940s. As a result, we were
visited frequently by Mormon missionaries.
In 1954, when I was 13 years old, we became good friends with
Elder
Lamar Reynolds, a missionary from Luna, New Mexico.
As he neared the end of his term as a missionary, he suggested
to
my parents that I be allowed to go home with him as his parents owned a
ranch
high in the White Mountains. He thought
that the climate in New Mexico would be good for my asthma. After much lobbying on my part and a good
deal of thought by my parents, I moved to Luna. I
have no idea what Elder Reynolds’ parents thought when he
showed up with me in tow, but they treated me like a younger son. I had a terrific experience living with the
Reynolds family, living a working ranch-type life, and even enrolling
in the
Luna elementary school as an eighth grader.
To my surprise, I was readily accepted into the local community
and had
a great time. Most of all, I never had
asthma again. About three months later,
my parents arrived in Thatcher, Arizona, where they had friends, on
December
31, 1954. I left Luna for Thatcher on
January 1, 1955.
At
the beginning of my sophomore year in high school, 1957, my family
moved to
Pima, Arizona, which was colonized by Mormon pioneers in 1879. It is located in the Gila River Valley in
Graham County near Safford, the county seat.
Pima has always been a fabulous town to me, and I still refer to
it as
my hometown. Pima is classic small town
America where everybody knows everybody, and a large percentage of the
residents are descendents of the town’s founders.
My
high school years were great. My
parents, having barely enough money to get by, followed the admonition
that you
can do anything you want as long as you can pay for it.
As a result, I almost always had a job. I
picked and chopped cotton, I was a bag boy
in a grocery store, worked on a water-well drilling rig, and labored on
the
irrigation canals; but my best, most consistent employment was milking
cows for
the Alma Bryce Dairy. I learned that a
dairyman never gets a day off; the cows were milked twice a day for 365
days a
year. By the way, I still get up early
every day, a by-product of dairying.
The plain truth is, however, that I didn’t work twice a day 365
days a
year. I played football, basketball,
and baseball in high school, and Alma Bryce only worked me in the
mornings and
on weekends during ball-playing season so that I could make practice
and games
in the afternoons and evenings. But can
you imagine how difficult it is to be at work at 5:00 a.m. after a
practice or
game? When I was working a full
schedule I put in six hours a day seven days a week and still went to
school. Let’s not talk about my grades.
During
my senior year in high school, it dawned on me that I had no idea about
what
came next. Because several of my best
friends were planning on going to college I thought that perhaps I
should
explore that possibility for myself.
I’ll never forget sitting down with my parents and laying out my
desire
to go to Eastern Arizona College, the local community college in
Thatcher. I really hadn’t given it much
thought
because college was never discussed as an option in my home. So I laid it out and said, “So, what do you
think?” My father never said a word,
but my mother looked at me like I was an alien from outer space, and
said,
“Son, you just better get out and get yourself a good job!” So much for higher education on the backs of
my parents.
Fortunately
for me, my parents had raised an independent child.
I had some money saved and so I decided to go to college on the
poor man’s plan. I worked and paid my
own way for the first year. The next
year I got married, worked full-time, and went to school on the long,
slow,
part-time plan. But I did it, and so
did my wife.
I
started working for Valley National Bank when I was 19 years old. I began my career at the bottom and, over
time, boot-strapped myself up the ladder. Boot-strapping
yourself up means that you get to do every single job
that nobody else wants, and you get to do it for a long time. But if you persevere, get your education,
and stay out of trouble, you can rise in the company.
I became a branch manager, agriculture loan officer, commercial
loan officer, and department manager. I
became a pretty good trouble shooter and problem solver and,
ultimately, First
Interstate Bank wanted me. So I started
over in a new bank as a bigger fish.
And guess what I found out? The
more responsibility I obtained and the more money I earned, I attended
more
meetings and had less fun. At the end
of my career, I was living in Las Vegas, in my dream home, happily
married,
working with great people, and bored to death.
It was time for a change, so my wife and I quit our jobs.
In
June, 1996, we moved to Gilbert, Arizona and opened our own financial
services
business. We affiliated ourselves with
Primerica Financial Services, a subsidiary of Citigroup.
But we weren’t even settled when my father,
Latt Upton, passed away on July 3, 1996.
I had to take time out to rethink who my father really was, and
I was
surprised.
Most
people who met Latt Upton would immediately recognize that he was an
intelligent
man; but he had very little formal education.
In our society that usually means that you will earn your living
with
the strength of your back and the skill of your hands.
That was my father; he was an auto
mechanic. He loved it.
He worked on cars all the time; there wasn’t
really a day off. He could figure out
any piece of equipment or machinery, and he never needed directions. But his love was automobiles and, of course,
my mother. In spite of his hard work
and his love of it, he never made a lot of money. My
youthful observations of him, with his greasy fingernails and
Dickey clothes, indicated to me that there must be a better way, so I
opted to
become a “professional.” Hence, I
pursued education and a specialty. At
age 55, I found myself burned out and bored.
Sure, I could analyze a financial statement, explain the
rudiments of
economics, manage a loan portfolio, make a speech, and shuffle
paperwork from
pile A to pile B; but I couldn’t put the kids’ toys together at
Christmas without
pulling my hair out. I almost wasn’t my
father’s son because I had distanced myself from his life as much as I
possibly
could. I realized at last that people
like my father keep the world running for those of us who can’t.
I
still do what I do best, i.e., help people manage their money; but I
have made
the move back to my roots by taking up stock car racing. I now have to
scrub my
fingernails before I meet with clients. And guess what?
I have never had so much fun!
